Life is not about good or bad. It is as it is. But we try to fit it into boxes by judging it according to our criteria, our desires, our normalities. It’s like having a huge elephant right in front of you while you are caught up in this ‘dilemma’ of whether it fits better in the blue small box on your left, or the red small box on your right.
The elephant is much bigger! And at one point it will go along on its way, regardless of all you’re useless analysing!